Couples Sex Toys That Don’t Have Relationship Barriers

Couples Sex Toys That Don’t Have Relationship Barriers

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Relationships Are Relationships

People express love in different ways and no relationship is the same, which is why all relationships are as different as we are. There’s no “right” or “wrong” way to have a relationship, as long as the relationship facilitates and contributes to your overall happiness and wellbeing. As my favourite sexual wellness educator, Rachel Wright, points out, “relationships are relationships are relationships”.

Which is why polyamory and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) has become an increasingly common topic of discussion in not only main-stream media, but in the bedroom too.

Finally, we can be away with stigmatisation and judgement – with the validity of non-monogamous relationships becoming more well-known and acknowledged alongside traditional monogamy.
This guide will cover the 3 main different types of relationships we hear about here at Be Daring, and the toys that have no barriers when it comes to who’s doing the do!


Monogamous Relationships

Monogamy is best and usually described as a relationship with only one partner at a time, rather than multiple partners. A monogamous relationship can be sexual or emotional, but you’ll most typically find it’s usually both, if the relationship is practicing monogamy. 


Ethical Non-monogamous Relationships

More non-traditional, you’ve probably heard ethical non-monogamous relationships referred to as, “open relationships”.  This usually refers to relationships where, although relationship may be monogamous in terms of romantic connection, each partner may have casual sexual relationships with other people.
This typically doesn’t involve any romantic feelings on either partners behalf. Like in any “traditional” relationship, the key to keeping it fulfilling and enjoyable is to maintain honesty and communication with your partner.  


Polyamorous Relationships

Polyamory specifically refers to people who have multiple romantic and sexual relationships at the same time. It’s not the exact same as the sort of open relationship that may include more casual sexual partners, as polyamory involves the romantic nature of relationships as well, not just the sexual. Due to this, in many polyamorous relationships, each partner is aware of the other ones and may even be dating as well. Many polyamorous people will have different ideas of what polyamory means to them (and that is more than okay!) so it’s important to be upfront with the expectations of yourself – whether emotional, physical, or spiritual - and your partners in the relationship.



Sex Toys That Don’t Have Relationship Barriers

Let’s be real, when it comes to the sex toy industry, there’s usually only one type of relationship or coupling that we hear about, and that’s – monogamous. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but I’m a firm believer that your toys should be as versatile as you are!

So here are a few of our favourite Be Daring sex toys that can be used in any kind of relationship!


The Lovense Teledildonics Range

Ideal for the sexual partners you can’t always be with! All Lovense sex toys have the ability to be operated through the Lovense app – whether it’s long-distance or close-range! This opens up a world of options, especially for those in more “non-traditional” relationships where finding time together can be few and far-between. With in-app messaging and video chat only a tap away it makes it much easier to share your intimate moments with your partner. My favourite part? By using the app, you have full customisation and control of the toy. You can decide which level of vibrations you like for "low", "medium" and "high”, you can also create and save up to 10 patterns, or sync to the beat of your favourite song! As Lovense makes toys for all body types you can also sync your toys together, and control them simultaneously while you play!

Available on: Lush 2Lush 3Domi 2Osci 2NoraFerriMax 2DiamoEdge 2Hush 1.5

You and your sexual partner may not always be able to be together, but you can take advantage of Lovense’s awesome-sauce app facilities!

  • Long-distance chat rooms
  • Sound activated vibrations and functions
  • Stimulation patterns that can be designed by your partner
  • Long-distance and close-range control

I would be doing a great disservice however, if I didn’t mention the Nora and Max 2 by Lovense.


Nora by Lovense

Nora Rabbit Vibrator by Lovense



Max 2 by Lovense

Max 2 Male Masturbator by Lovense

Connect the Nora Rabbit Vibrator and Max 2 Male Masturbator to your smartphone app and unleash a world of possibilities thanks to the technology of Teledildonics!

Teledildonics is the technical term for sex toys that can connect to each other to create ‘remote sex’ through haptic feedback – meaning both of you can play together with the Lovense app.

When your toy moves, their toy reacts – and vice versa. The cool part? This haptic feedback relationship isn’t limited to just the connection between the specific two toys – you can sync up two Max 2’s or even two Nora’s – the ideal combo for a same sex sexual partners!



Multi-Use Massagers

TRYST™ v2 Bendable Multi Erogenous Zone Massager with Remote

The only limitation to your pleasure is your imagination with the TRYST.

TRYST v2 Bendable Multi-Massager

Channel your inner-flexibility queen (or king) with the TRYST by Doc Johnson! Designed with all bodies in mind, this multi-use massager is changing the way we play. Featuring an award-winning design that doesn’t shirk on power (*ahem* 3-motors in this little baddie!), plus flexible silicone arms that bend and stay in position for internal or external stimulation – it’s clear that it’s the perfect addition for your midnights tryst’s. What sets the TRYST apart from most other couple’s toys on the market is the comfortable custom fit every time you use it, regardless of genitalia making it ideal for any kind of couple. Because they thought of everything, the TRYST also has an included wireless remote-control to make the enjoyment of this toy interactive and effortless!



Sex Toy Kits

Rabbit Company - Lay On Play Time Set

Pleasure is a hop, skip, and a jump away with Rabbit Company - Lay On Play Time Set. Rabbit Company - Lay On Play Time SetThe Lay-On Rabbit Couples Playtime Set is a high-quality adult intimacy kit that has a selection of pleasure products that create an intimate experience like no other. This multi-piece set includes the clitoral Lay-On Rabbit, Satin Tie, Beaded Flogger, and Sex Dice.

Lock the door and plan a naughty night in with your sexual partner with the Lay-On Rabbit Couples Playtime Set. The powerful rabbit ears are near silent with strong motor strength and vibration. Turn up the excitement with a beaded flogger to tease and sensually torture your partner. Roll the dice to try out exciting new ways to play. The kit works for couples and any combination of partners to create an unforgettable night of intimate play.



Buzz Box Sex Toy Kit

Fulfill every erotic desire and buzz your way through all four options of this powerful vibrator.

Buzz Box Sex Toy Kit

The Buzz Box is a smooth vibrating bullet that include three extra interchangeable silicone sleeves. Slide each one on to feel the strong vibrations in all the ways you can imagine. Start with a traditional bullet that has seven speeds and seven pulsations before sliding on the pointed clitoral sleeve for pinpointed stimulation. The pack includes a rabbit like sleeve attachment for internal pleasure. The rabbit sleeve is curved for optimal g-spot stimulation and has a small clitoral stimulator to keep the satisfaction high. Everyone forgets about the anus, but not The Buzz Box! The third attachment replicates anal beads for the ultimate anal experience.

The soft body-safe silicone is perfect for the strong vibrations to travel from the right to the tip of the sleeve without losing any power. Why buy four different toys when you can have the rechargeable Buzz Box?



Final Thoughts

There's no doubt that the sex toy world can be a tad limiting to relationships that don't follow the traditional relationship status-quo. However, this just perpetuates the notion that only certain relationships are okay. We want to remind you that as long as your relationship is making you and your significant other happy, then it's valid too! 

These are the items that here at BeDaring, we know work for any and all bodies - and with that extending to all relationships. 

For more tips on how to keep the heat turned up in the bedroom (because it doesn't end with just toys), please check out our blog, The MUST Try Sex Positions of 2021. 

Should you have any queries or concerns please do not hesitate to contact our friendly professional staff on our Free Call number 1800 571 904.


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