5 Creative Ways to incorporate a Spreader Bar into your BDSM Scene

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5 Creative Ways to Incorporate a Spreader Bar into your BDSM Scenes

Why are Spreader Bars Used?

People like using spreader bars for a whole range of reasons, from their position-enhancing benefits to their restraint possibilities.

For some, it’s the psychological thrill of complete and utter submission. Being bound and ‘forced’ to receive pleasure can send some people up the walls. Having your legs held apart leaves you totally exposed and completely at your partner's or ‘Dominants’ mercy, which can be spine-tinglingly erotic, not to mention it shows and builds trust with your partner.

Positions to try using a Spreader Bar:

1: Sealed with an X-OH - add a pair of restraints to the ankles in conjunction with restraints to the wrists. Both restraints can then be looped through a bedpost or attached to a firm object so that the body appears in an X shape.

Positions

2: Standing Doggy - One of the best positions for spreader bar sex, standing doggy, entails penetrating the sub from behind with the legs spread as far apart as possible. Ensure you remain close, so the sub is safe and comfortable. You can also have them hold onto something for support. Not only is the position super-hot, but it delivers a visually appealing sight.

standing doggy

3: The Y-Position - Though simple to execute, the Y position comes with many possibilities. Simply lay on your back on a mat or mattress and cuff the ankles firmly and comfortably. It’s more like the usual missionary, but with better access and undue strain on the sub.

the Y-position

4: The X Position – Similar to the Y-Position the advanced X position. Simply add an extra bondage bar for the wrist to move from the Y to the X position. The position offers total domination while eliminating undue ankle and wrist straining.

the X-position

5: The Inverted X Position - It’s just like the X position, but with the sub lying on their chest. The position offers unhinged access to the erogenous zones and makes other BDSM play techniques like spanking and paddling exciting.

the inverted X position

6: Four Point, One Bar - While many people see it as an expert-only position, I think it’s easy to get it right. You need a single bar with four attachment points. Let your sub lay on their stomach, cuff the ankles on either end of the bar, and then cuff both wrists to the center of the bar. The position gives unparalleled access to your playmate’s pleasure zones with little hindrance if any.

four points position

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5 Creative Ways to incorporate a Spreader Bar into your BDSM Scene

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