How to use an Anal Dildo

Even after decades of work to dispel the stigma associated with anal play, many people have never done it and never plan to.

For some, it hurts. For some, it's repulsive. Some people simply don't think it's sexy.

The modest anal dildo is the ideal tool to start you on this voyage into a whole new realm of pleasure, should you have the courage to explore the forbidden fruit.

After selecting the perfect dildo for anal insertion, you'll need to give yourself some time to psychologically and physically get ready. But if you have the correct attitude, inserting your dildo is painless and simple, and once it's within, you may start experiencing a variety of different types of pleasure. Just watch out that your body doesn't push it out again!

Selecting the Ideal Anal Dildo for Yourself

Selecting the right anal dildo is a crucial decision that can significantly impact how you feel when using it. Your sexual experience can be drastically altered by a wide variety of types, sizes, forms, and features.

However, there is one thing you must confirm before examining any of these aspects. You should utilise anal dildo with a flared base. This prevents the dildo from becoming fully sucked into your butt and becoming lost or stuck. You ought to give careful thought to the material that makes up your dildo. The best materials for an anal dildo are silicone, glass, or stainless steel. These materials don't contain phthalates or other dangerous chemicals, and their non-porous nature helps to minimise odour.

What kind of dildo you want to try is entirely up to you, aside from these two requirements.

A tiny, slender dildo is perfect for total novices when it comes to anal play. A vibrating or more texturized anal dildo can make a big difference for someone who has used one a few times and wants to add some spice.

A curved anal dildo or a prostate massager can help men reach the P-spot and stimulate the area. An extra large fantasy dildo can offer the stretch experienced anal enthusiasts are looking for in a fresh challenge.

Consider your body, your experience level, and the pleasures you derive from non-anal stimulation when selecting a dildo. This will help you start experimenting with anal stimulation by providing you with at least some of the same sensations.

The Significance of Anal Play Preparation

It can significantly impact your experience, particularly if you're a novice, to take a few easy precautions in advance of anal play. Hurrying through your first attempt can make you wonder why everyone was so excited and discouraged from trying again for a while. Using lubrication is the biggest step you can take to improve the enjoyment of anal play. Although it may seem apparent, you'd be surprised at how many people simply assume that "spit will do." It isn't...

Making sure you're at ease and lustful comes next. Choose a position that you can stay in for a few minutes at least, and that allows you to easily move the dildo around. Make whatever preparations you need to turn on and prepare for penetration.

How to Use an Anal Toy for Beginners

Clean your dildo: It's always a good idea to give it a quick once over before you begin, even if you do so after every use as you should. Germs and grime can accumulate in between uses.

Examine your dildo for damage: You should take a few minutes after using a sex toy to make sure there is no damage. If so, switch to a different toy.

Use the loo! One of the most common concerns for people who aren't familiar with anal play is pooping while doing it. Remove all fear by using the loo first, and if you want to be extra sure, use an anal douche or enema.

Get in the mood: Do whatever it is that gets you turned on and horny before you even touch your butt!

Apply plenty of lube: As previously stated, lube is essential for anal play. Make sure it's on your dildo, butt, and, ideally, in your hole. It will dry out during your session, so don't be afraid to stop and reapply as needed.

Begin with a finger: Don't use the dildo right away. Begin making circular motions around your butthole with the tip of your (lubed) finger. The muscles will begin to relax because of this. When you're ready, insert the tip of your finger up to the first knuckle. Move it in and out a little to get used to the sensations, then go a little deeper. After you've taken one finger, try another. To keep your anal muscles relaxed, keep making circular motions the entire time.

Slowly insert the dildo: Insert the dildo in stages, just as you would your finger. Insert the tip, then take a short break. Back and forth it, then go deeper. If you start to feel uncomfortable or if it starts to hurt, you're going too fast. It should feel good or neutral the entire time, so take a break if necessary and try again.

You succeeded! What happens next?

One of the first things you'll probably notice is that your butt is trying to push the dildo back out. This is completely normal, and you'll have to deal with it during most anal play. If it does fall out, simply push it back inside; however, your muscles should relax after a while, making it easier to keep the dildo inside.

Start moving the dildo around when you're ready! Experiment with gentle back-and-forth motions, rotations, or small circles. Turn on your dildo if it vibrates! Begin by investigating everything anal and see what your butt has to offer.

There are a couple of things you can try if you're having trouble enjoying it. To begin, simply hold the dildo within your body. For many people, the sensation of fullness provided by anal toys is the most appealing aspect of the experience, which can be pleasurable with no movement at all. Another way to become more at ease with anal is to experiment with different parts of your body. Masturbate, tease, or stroke while the dildo remains inside your body. Even if the anal play isn't really pushing your buttons, it will usually intensify any other masturbation.

Some Anal Sex Suggestions

Don't double dip! If you've used a toy in your butt, you shouldn't use it in your vagina without first washing it.

Numbing creams should be avoided. These are sometimes recommended to make anal easier, but pain is a warning sign from your body that something is wrong, and ignoring it can make things worse for yourself.

Don't get too caught up in anal orgasms. They're quite rare, and for most people, anal is something that "feels nice" in addition to other forms of play.

When you're finished, go to the loo! Your butt is going to be lubed up, loosened, and ready to clear itself out. If you can also take a shower, that's even better!

Use different anal dildos. An ejaculating dildo, for example, can elevate your anal play by imitating a real climax, which adds a whole new level of stimulation. The more you experiment, the more new sensations you discover in your body.

Anal play is a fantastic way to spice up your sex life. It may not be for everyone, but if you're ready to get started, browse our selection and pick your first anal dildo now.