How To Achieve The Ultimate Orgasm With A Dildo

How To Achieve The Ultimate Orgasm With A Dildo

Everyone wants to have that ultimate magical orgasm. That orgasm that shakes their body right to their souls adn leaves you feel completely spent.

Before the age of sex toys, most women probably had that soul-shaking orgasm a few times in a lifetime. But with these toys, you can get them every week, or if you're very skilled and know your body to the T, every night if you can’t get enough.

I call that soul-shaking orgasm the ultimate orgasm.

For some reason, many women have bought into the myth that the only way you can have that ultimate orgasm is by using expensive and complex sex toys for several years. Those toys may make it easier for you to get that orgasm, but that doesn't mean that more basic tools like a dildo can't get it done. 

And let me tell you — they can get it done. If you don't know how to achieve that amazing orgasm with a dildo, here are a few tips for you.

Set The Mood

Almost half of the quality of playtime is dependent on the mood you set before beginning. If you can afford to be intentional about setting the mood, then do that.

Light up a few scented candles. Put on some sexy music. Dim the lights. Wear lingerie! Make yourself feel sexy about it.

Start Small

Rushing into the business by getting the biggest dildo you can find will not do you any good whatsoever. This tip is especially important if you're trying to use the dildo “anally.”

Take time to get comfortable. This isn't a quickie, and if you're going to get that ultimate orgasm, you'll need to be patient with yourself. Try to start with a size you know fits right with you — don't just buy the biggest one you can find. Try to buy from a store with a lot of choices, as that will help you choose the right size for you.

And remember, before sliding the dildo in, try to do some warm-ups to get yourself in the mood. Foreplay isn't only necessary during sex with a partner — it can also be a really important part of masturbation.

Don't Forget The Lube!

Half of the problem people have with dildos boils down to them not being willing to use lube. Lube makes sexual activity easier because it reduces friction.

Now, I'm perfectly aware that the vagina can self lubricate, and that's great. But sometimes, that lubrication might not be enough, and it's just better to have extra lube to cover all bases.

If you're using a dildo for anal play, you've got to remember that the anus can't self lubricate, so it's very important to use lube in that situation.

Be Flexible With Your Position

One mistake that people who use dildos often make is that they try the same position over and over again.

If you use your dildo like that, you aren't going to get that mind-blowing orgasm you want. So be open-minded! Explore as much as you can!

If you pay attention to all these tips, you'd be able to achieve that ultimate orgasm with a dildo that will keep your neighbours curious.

If you are looking for adult sex toys to help you broaden your sexual horizons and explore the wonders of masturbation, then please feel free to drop into one of our stores or call us today on 1800 666 069. We are always here to help!

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