Dildos

One of our favourite things about dildo sex toys is just how much variety there is.

You can keep things sweet and simple, go beautifully realistic, turn up the vibration or choose something so outrageous it deserves its own postcode.

Realistic dildos are made for anyone who loves a more lifelike look and feel. Think defined heads, veins, flexible shafts, balls and skin-like textures. Some feel soft and squishy, while others offer firmer resistance for more noticeable internal pressure.

Suction cup dildos are a Be Daring favourite because they give you options. Stick one to a suitable smooth surface and suddenly your hands are free to explore, tease, touch or hold onto something. They can be especially fun in the shower, on smooth flooring, against certain furniture or paired with a compatible harness.

Vibrating dildos bring some extra buzz to penetration. They combine the shape and fullness of a traditional dildo with internal vibration, making them a gorgeous option if you like deeper stimulation.

Thrusting dildos do more of the work for you. Instead of manually creating every movement, the toy produces a back-and-forth motion that can add a completely different sensation to solo or partnered play.

Glass dildos are for those who love firm pressure. They don't flex like silicone, which means every curve and contour can feel much more pronounced. They're smooth, weighty and can also introduce carefully controlled temperature play when the product is designed for it.

Strap-on dildos open up a whole world of partner play. They can be used for vaginal or anal penetration, pegging, role reversal, gender expression or simply trying something completely new together.

Double-ended dildos are longer and designed for shared penetration or particular types of solo play. Some are flexible enough to bend with the body, while others offer more structure and pressure.

Anal dildos are designed specifically with anal play in mind. The important bit here is the base. Anything going into the anus should have a wide flared base, handle or another secure feature that prevents the entire toy from slipping inside.

Huge dildos are for experienced players who know they love serious length, girth or both. There is no trophy for taking the biggest one in the room, though. Bigger play should be gradual, controlled and very well lubricated.

And if realistic simply isn't your thing, fantasy and dragon dildos can get wonderfully weird. Dragon-inspired shapes, sculpted ridges, exaggerated textures and imaginative designs let you step well outside the ordinary.

Because sometimes simple is incredibly satisfying.

One of the biggest advantages of a dildo is control. You decide exactly how it moves, how deep it goes, what angle feels best and when you want more.

That makes dildos brilliant for exploring your own body.

A curved dildo may help you experiment with targeted pressure against the front vaginal wall. A firmer toy can create more concentrated internal pressure. A softer, flexible dildo may feel gentler and more forgiving during longer play sessions.

And then there is girth.

For some people, the most satisfying part of dildo play isn't thrusting at all. It is that slow, delicious feeling of fullness. If that's what makes your toes curl, look closely at diameter and circumference when comparing toys rather than only focusing on length.

Dildos are also fantastic for couples because they don't need to replace anything. They can join the party.

Use one during oral sex, incorporate it into foreplay, experiment with strap-on play, explore double penetration or simply bring a favourite toy into the bedroom when you want an extra helping hand.

The point isn't to use a dildo the "right" way.

It's to find the way your body likes it.

This is where people sometimes get distracted by the photos.

A toy might look incredible on screen, but dimensions matter much more than glamour shots when you're deciding whether it is right for your body.

Start with size.

Look at insertable length rather than total length. A dildo with balls, a large base or suction cup can have a much longer overall measurement than the amount actually designed to go inside you.

Then check girth.

Length gets all the attention, but girth can make a much bigger difference to how intense a dildo feels.

Manufacturers may list diameter, width or circumference, so check what measurement you're actually reading before you compare two toys.

If you're newer to penetration, smaller and slimmer generally gives you more control while you work out what you enjoy.

Already know you love a fuller feeling? Then you may want to explore thicker shafts, pronounced heads or gradually step up into larger sizes.

Next, think about firmness.

Soft toys flex with your body and can feel more forgiving.

Firm silicone provides more noticeable pressure.

Glass is rigid, which makes curves and textures feel much more direct.

Finally, think about what you'll actually be doing with it.

Want hands-free play? Look at suction cup dildos.

Planning on pegging? Check strap-on dildo and harness compatibility.

Interested in anal play? Make sure the base is genuinely anal safe.

Craving movement? A vibrating dildo or thrusting dildo may be calling your name.

There is no universally perfect dildo.

There is, however, probably a perfect one for what you're in the mood for.

Yes, material matters.

When you're putting something inside your body, we think you deserve to know what it's made from and how to look after it properly.

Silicone is one of the most popular materials for dildos. Depending on the formulation and design, it can range from soft and flexible to surprisingly firm. Quality silicone is also commonly chosen because it is smooth, durable and easy to care for when cleaned according to the manufacturer's instructions.

TPE and TPR are often used in realistic dildos because they can create that soft, flesh-like squish people love. These materials can require more careful cleaning, drying and storage than non-porous materials, so make sure you follow the individual product instructions.

Borosilicate glass is smooth, firm and completely rigid. That firmness means you often don't need a massive glass dildo to create intense pressure. Even a slimmer glass toy can feel very present once it's inside.

Hard plastics such as ABS can also be used in certain toys or components and provide very direct stimulation with minimal flex.

If you're ever unsure about what a dildo is made from, ask us.

Our team would much rather help you understand a product before you buy it than have you guessing about something you plan on putting inside your body.

We say this all the time in store: use more lube than you think you need.

Good lubricant can completely change how a dildo feels.

It reduces friction, makes penetration more comfortable and allows you to focus on pleasure rather than wondering why your favourite toy suddenly feels like hard work.

Water-based lubricant is our easiest all-round recommendation because it is compatible with most sex toy materials and condoms.

Silicone-based lubricant lasts longer and can feel incredibly silky, but compatibility varies with silicone toys, so always check the manufacturer's instructions first.

Oil-based lubricant is another option for certain kinds of play, but it should not be used with latex condoms and may not suit every sex toy material.

And for anal dildo play?

Be generous.

The anus doesn't self-lubricate like the vagina, so plenty of lube, patience and a slow build-up make the experience considerably more comfortable.

This is where things get fun.

Whether you're after your very first dildo, replacing an old favourite or hunting for something that makes your current collection look positively innocent, we've got plenty to tempt you.

Shop realistic dildos for lifelike pleasure.

Explore suction cup dildos for hands-free fun.

Turn things up with vibrating dildos and thrusting dildos.

Try glass dildos for smooth, firm pressure.

Discover strap-on dildos for partnered penetration.

Go bigger with huge dildos.

Or leave reality behind completely with fantasy and dragon dildos.

We stock options for beginners, experienced users, couples and anyone curious enough to try something new.

And if fifty different shapes start blurring together after ten minutes of scrolling, you're not alone.

That's exactly what our team is here for.

Be Daring has been selling adult products since 1992, online and through our Queensland stores, and helping customers work out what suits their body is a big part of what we do.

No judgement.

No stupid questions.

Just good advice and better sex toys.

A little preparation makes for much better play.

Give your dildo a clean before use according to the manufacturer's care instructions and check it for any cracks, tears, damaged surfaces or sharp edges.

Add plenty of compatible lubricant.

Start slowly, particularly with a new toy. Give your body time to adjust to the shape, girth and firmness before increasing depth or intensity.

Once you're comfortable, experiment.

Change your angle.

Change your position.

Slow things right down.

Hold it still and enjoy the pressure.

There is no requirement to thrust like you're auditioning for a very specific kind of movie.

If something hurts sharply, stop. Pain is useful information from your body, not a challenge you need to overcome.

For anal play, always use a dildo with a securely flared base, handle or another design feature specifically intended to prevent complete insertion.

If you're sharing a dildo between partners, a fresh condom over the toy can make hygiene easier. Replace it between users and whenever moving from anal to vaginal use.

Otherwise, thoroughly clean the toy according to the manufacturer's instructions before changing where or with whom it is being used.

After play, clean your toy, let it dry properly and store it somewhere clean and dry.

Treat it well and it should be ready when the mood strikes again.

Because we've been doing this for a while.

Be Daring began in 1992, long before buying a dildo online was something people casually did from the couch.

We've watched sex toys go from hidden-away novelties to beautifully designed sexual wellness products made for just about every body imaginable.

And we've answered thousands of questions along the way.

Our approach is simple.

We want you to enjoy what you buy.

That means providing clear product information, practical advice and a broad range of dildo sex toys covering different sizes, shapes, materials, prices and experience levels.

You can shop online with discreet delivery or visit our Queensland stores if you'd rather see products in person and talk through your options with our team.

Sex toys should be fun.

Choosing one should be too.

What size dildo is best for beginners?

There isn't one perfect beginner size because everyone's body and penetration experience is different. Generally, starting with a slimmer dildo and manageable insertable length gives you more control while you discover what feels good. Always check the actual measurements rather than relying only on terms such as small, medium or large.

What's the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?

A traditional dildo doesn't require a motor. The sensation comes from its shape, size, texture, firmness and the movement you create. Vibrators generate vibration using a motor. Vibrating dildos combine elements of both.

Can I use a dildo anally?

Yes, provided the dildo is designed for anal play and has a secure flared base, handle or another feature that prevents it from disappearing completely inside the rectum. Use plenty of lubricant and take things slowly.

What lube should I use with a dildo?

Water-based lubricant is usually the easiest option because it works with most toy materials and condoms. If you prefer silicone or oil-based lubricant, check compatibility with the dildo material and any condoms or barriers you're using.

How do you clean a dildo?

It depends on the material and whether the dildo contains electronic components. Follow the manufacturer's instructions, use an appropriate sex toy cleaner or recommended cleaning method, rinse where suitable and allow the toy to dry completely before storing it.

Can couples share a dildo?

Absolutely. If you're sharing between partners, using a fresh condom over the dildo can make hygiene easier. Change the condom between people and when switching from anal to vaginal use, or clean the toy thoroughly according to its care instructions before changing users or body areas.