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In choosing a dildo size for sexual explorations, you need to consider a significant number of factors and ask yourself, "who you really are?" and "what works best for you?". Do you want to get a large-sized dildo because someone you know recommended it to you, or is it because that's what works best for you?

When choosing a dildo size, one might get confused or even frustrated with choosing the right size. Women have diverse preferences for erotic dildo sizes, so we can't use one person's preference to judge or predict another person's preference. Arousal in each woman is different, depending on sensitivity, so some may need a larger or smaller sex toy.

Choosing vibrators' size or shape doesn’t matter because its size doesn’t limit its function and level of satisfaction to the user. While on the contrary, dildos have different sizes that determine how well a person gets satisfaction. So, it is safe to conclude that choosing the best dildo size is of utmost importance in our sexual lives. Now, we’ll be talking more about the different sizes we have and their area of specialisation.

Huge Dildos

Firstly, we'll be talking about the oversized dildos. There's a false belief among women that dildos sizes of about 20 centimetres give the most sexual pleasure and multiple orgasms, but that is a lie. Because when a dildo or penis is too big for your vagina to accommodate, it can cause discomfort and pain, which isn't good for general health.

Long Slim Masturbators

On the other hand, other vibrators could be longer but very thin and without enough girth to fill a woman during penetration, so there will be no pleasure. The measurements that these sex toys commonly range from 1 centimetre to 20 centimetres.

According to recent research, it was found out that 80% of women who want extra large dildos are women who believe in “the more the pain, the more the pleasure”, and they prefer to feel full by the dildo and like to be pushed to the limits of pleasure.

So the size of the dildo matters to these sets of people, and for this reason, extremely large sex toys are ideal for them. They are perfect for practising fisting (a sexual activity that consists of putting the entire fist into the vagina) or the puzzle of discovering how much size their body can accommodate.

For BDSM sexual activity, different sizes of dildos can be used and customised according to their preference. Also, some women feel intense pleasure during pain and torture and thus often go for the bigger sizes of dildo.

Moderate Size Dildos

This is an alternative to use instead of a large dildo, and there are different sizes a woman can choose from. If that is too much, then you can always choose a small-sized dildo. A lady whose vagina isn't really comfortable with an extremely large dildo can rock with this instead. Also, for choosing the right size of a dildo for anal sex, a small-sized dildo should be used to start penetration and stimulate an intense pleasure and then can be later changed to a larger size.

Final Thoughts

As a beginner, I would advise you not to start with a big dildo but to start with a smaller one for your body to accommodate the size and prevent pain and displeasure. It also makes your body relaxed for an optimised pleasure. Large dildos are not highly recommended for anal sex and it is also advised to use one with a pointed tip.

A pointed tip dildo usually has a slimmer upper extremity while the greater part has more width. Additionally, if you want to use a huge masturbator for anal sex, then it is advisable and recommended to use a dilator containing relaxant to reduce pain and displeasure.

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