Should You Spend International Sex Workers’ Day With A Sex Worker?

Should You Spend International Sex Workers’ Day With A Sex Worker?

June 2 marked International Sex Workers’ Day. With this is mind, we thought we would write a blog about International Sex Workers’ Day. More specifically, we thought we would address the question of whether or not you should celebrate International Sex Workers’ Day with, ahh - a sex worker! 

Firstly, a lot of people are quite surprised there is actually an International Sex Workers’ Day. Once you have your head around this then you may also be wondering what even happens on this day? An orgy, free sex? If you have ever pondered these questions, then please keep on reading as we explore this topic further.

Where And How Did International Sex Workers’ Day Start?

International sex workers’ day, set on June 2nd, is a day celebrated to amplify the voices of those involved in sex work. In 1975, on 2nd June, about 100 sex workers occupied Saint-Nizier Church in Lyon, France, to express their anger about their criminalised and exploitative living conditions. This action sparked a national movement, and the day is now celebrated in Europe and around the world.

Please keep on reading so that you can learn what you need to do to spend June 2nd with a sex worker and get the most out of it.

Make Them Feel Special For Who They Are

The thing is… sex workers typically don’t want to work on the special day picked to honour their work. If you’re going to spend the day with a sex worker on the day set apart to celebrate them, it should be with someone you’re in a relationship with, and you must make them feel special. 

Sex workers already go through a lot of challenges, including dating, so that is why you should understand why having one of them spend time with you on such a special day is a privilege in itself.

The biggest challenge a sex worker would have while dating is finding someone who actually wants to ‘get to know you’ for you. Another challenge is showing that what they do is just work. As explained by a sex worker, “we love what we do. We go [to] work, get paid, and come home just like a 9-5 worker would.” 

Don’t Impose Yourself

What everyone loves is a supportive partner that they can go home to after a mentally draining day. An interviewed sex worker says, “many people who’ve approached me think I’m a nymphomaniac and am just open for whatever projected fantasy they have, which is extraordinarily frustrating—and frankly quite strange—when you’ve only exchanged two messages prior.” 

Sex workers also regularly complain of their partners feeling overly jealous and picking fights. Katarina said to Men'sHealth: “I was never really great at dating because I get exhausted and bored of it. When I did date, I didn't have too much trouble with people having an issue with my job, although I was dating some trash.”

Consider Their Fantasies

The challenges differ. A worker said, “I was in a different relationship with someone who was "vanilla" and wasn't interested in this field of work. When I became a fetish model, I ended up breaking things off with said individual as I couldn't be with a person who is not receptive to new ideas.

I am currently in a very stimulating relationship with a partner who is genuinely fascinated about my work as a fetish model to the point where he shoots a few of my clips and often gives suggestions regarding outfits I should wear and fetish categories I should shoot”.

Introduce Some Spice

The way to make your sex worker partner have a good day on international sex workers’ day is to organise a lovely day to appreciate them, their work, and assure them that their right to justice is important no matter what. 

If the day turns out to end in sweaty flips in the sheets and your partner is up for the kink, then you might consider surprising her with a g-spot vibrator to really help your partner enjoy a happy ending to the day. The Miss Bi Dual Stimulator by Fun Factory might just do the trick. This ergonomically shaped vibrator is curved to sit against the g-spot and has a wide clitoral stimulator to give your lady inside out pleasure. 

So there you have it, the best way to spend time with a sex worker on International Sex Workers’ Day. If you are looking for some female sex toys to help you get a bit more sexually creative with your companion, then please feel free to drop in to one of our stores or call us today on 1800 666 069. We are always here to help!

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