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Anal Play: Communication is The Best Lube!

You can’t bring in the toosh without talking it out first.

Like all things sex, a good old chat with your partner and setting some clear expectations are important before any body parts goes anywhere – and especially so for anything to do with the booty!

A few questions to ask yourself before any anal play is:

Do I want to bottom (receive) or top (give)?
Do I want penetration?
Do I want to use toys first?

When you have decided what you want out of anal play, make sure to voice this with your sexual partner. One of the most important things to do during any new sexual experience is to talk it out and set your expectations beforehand with your partner. If you and your partner can’t talk about anal, then its probably a sign, you’re not ready for it either!

Obviously, nobody wants anal if it’s not enjoyable for both partners, so make sure to:

Discuss consent with your partner – it should be a “HELL YES” from the both of you!
Let them know how you feel about it before, during and after
It’s also easy to do things our partners don’t like when trying out something new, unfortunately a lot of the time they might not even realise. So, make sure to tell your partner if they’re going:
- too fast, or too hard, need more lubricant, or need to stop, etc.
Be enthusiastic if it feels good – make sure to voice your pleasure!

Final Thoughts

Communication doesn’t have to be a bedroom buzzkill! Use it as a positive force for between the sheets! It's important to tell your partner what you enjoyed, and what felt good as well!

Just make sure to set expectations with yourself aswell as your partner, and ensure you do the talk before you walk the walk!

For any other tips on getting ready for anal play, check out our other anal play blog, Anal Play: Preparing Your Booty.

Should you have any queries or concerns please do not hesitate to contact our friendly professional staff on our Free Call number 1800 571 904.

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Anal Play: Communication is The Best Lube!

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