Guide To Adult Play And Kinky Ideas

Guide To Adult Play And Kinky Ideas

When people hear kinky sex, they immediately think about spanking. But that isn't all there is to it. While spanking could be a part of kinky sex, that's certainly not all of it. 

Today, we'll be looking at a few extra ways you can get kinky in the bedroom without doing any slapping. Or with doing the bare minimum of slapping, in any case.

However, before we dive right in, there's one rule that you must strictly adhere to when getting involved in kinky sex. Before you start, try to have an open discussion with your partner as to what they want and what they don't want. Understand what works for them, what turns them on, and what doesn't before starting. That way, both of you will be able to fully explore your fantasies as adventurously as you'd like.

Play Dress Up

It doesn't matter whether you'd like to show up as a cop or an imprisoned princess — cuffs may work here. All that matters is that it adds that sweet edge that many couples seem to have missed. Dressing up allows you to work through several exciting scenarios, and then bring those experiences to life. There are very few things hotter than experiencing — or acting out your fantasy. I'd dare say it's pretty kinky.

Blindfolds Work

Even if you cannot immediately purchase one, get a rag or a piece of cloth that can act as one. Tying a blindfold on your partner deprives them of their sense of sight, and as such makes, all the other senses heightened. Everything from taste to touch will be a bit more stimulating, and it could lead to a mind-blowing experience — especially if you or your partner are adept at using their fingers.

Visit A Sex Dungeon

Okay, don't freak out. Remember, I said don't freak out. You obviously cannot have sex in a sex dungeon, but watching people do it can be uniquely arousing. Besides, you can even take lessons from their antics home to spice up your sex life even more.

Talk Dirty To Your Partner

Some people say that talking dirty is an art that you have to master. I say no. You see, dirty talking is not really about what you're saying, but how you're saying it. You need to rev up that confidence and start dirty talking with some swagger and chip on your shoulder. It doesn't matter whether you're dom or sub — as long as you keep talking with the right attitude, you'll put your partner in the right mood to have the time of their lives.

However, you've got to be careful about what you're saying. That's why it's important to speak with your partner first about possible boundaries while having fun.

A Golden Shower Isn't A Bad Idea

This may sound disgusting to you, but it's a pretty common kink — and if done right, it can get pretty hot. This kink can be very powerful for the Dom and can prove to be a bit too much for the sub. It's important to note, though, that the best place to try this out is in a shower as the water will wash down fairly quickly. This kink is not for everyone, and if you feel so grossed out about it, you shouldn't try it. However, if it sounds exciting to you, then you should try it out. 

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