How to Use Bondage Handcuffs in Bed

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How to use Bondage Handcuffs in Bed

Intro:

For dominants: The idea of controlling another person’s body as well as mind is what drives dominants. Despite the control aspect, the dominant is responsible for taking care of their sub/slave’s pleasure and well-being before, during, and after playtime.

For submissive or slaves: The idea of giving up full control and being ‘helpless’ can be a huge turn-on for some. They submit themselves fully to their dominant and experience a slew of sexual acts and commands (that they’ve given consent to) such as edging, forced orgasms, chastity, and more.

But in a huge plot twist, it is the sub or slave that has all the power. This is because it is their consent that controls what the dominant will or won’t do (along with a safe word).

Types of Bondage Handcuffs:

Metal Handcuffs: In reality, not many people use this type of metal handcuffs more than once if it is their first pair but so many people buy them. If it is metal, you want though, there are other types. Chain Handcuffs, wrist restraints attached together with a length of chain allow much more movement, you can purchase the wrist bands on their own with the attachment and then choose your own length of chain. A chain makes putting the cuffs on so much easier for your “captor” too.

Leather Handcuffs: Leather Handcuffs are much gentler, and the material has all the aesthetic connotations of something kinky. The only thing is they are not as secure and even when they are on snugly, the material has given in it. They are hard to clean. leather needs to be cleaned with leather cleaner and will be ruined by the wash that the fabric requires. Leather on leather is a better bet if you are going to be using them often.

Velcro Handcuffs: Industrial strength Velcro is surprisingly hard to escape from, a lot harder than the quick release on most play cuffs. And it is just so safe and comfortable. Sports sheets lead the way when it comes to Velcro restraints for beginners, Ouch, Fetish and Hells couture have everything else in the way of cuffs covered.

Furry Handcuffs: Furry cuff is covered with soft fur, and used in a sexual bondage situation. So, this is also known as a bondage cuff. Bondage cuffs may be made of leather or fake furs. But furry handcuffs are more attractive than leather cuffs. The used fur may be of different colors like purple, red, blue, and green. Red- and purple-colored furs are mostly used furs for their attractiveness.

Bondage Handcuffs: Bondage handcuffs are also used to join the ankles or wrists. After joining the ankles or wrists, the cuffs can be attached to other objects like D-ring, nylon webbing, restraining straps, or chains. Cuffs can also be used to suspend a body. Cuffs are fastened to the ankles or wrists by locking mechanisms.

Fur Bondage Handcuffs: So, fur is the best material to make bondage handcuffs, because its softness gives comfort and reduces tightness. Loops that are used to join other objects with the cuffs are not as strong as ordinary handcuffs. But for suspension of a body, these hold the weight of a body. So, for suspension, loops are made stronger than ordinary ones.

What to look for when buying Bondage Handcuffs:

If you are searching for Perfect soft bondage and restraint play, there are a few things to consider.

First, the material. Yes, not all handcuffs are equal. If you are looking for a more sensual fetish play, then think about handcuffs made from an elastic or supple material rather than the cold iron sort. I have always enjoyed the feel of velvet. So, when it comes to handcuffing, a soft velvet material is perfect.

For the fastening, look for a Velcro tab rather than a key and chain. This offers a more comfortable fit. If your partner is not into the fetish scene in the same way, then using this type of restraint can take away any concerns or worries.

If your new BDSM handcuffs can be un-clipped and attached elsewhere, they become a very versatile piece of bondage equipment. What’s more, your partner will not be surprised by any cold, hard iron, or steel. She or He can sit back and enjoy the feeling of constraint in a comfortable handcuff.

Positions to try using Bondage Handcuffs:

1: Up in arms: your partner is hand handcuffed to the bedhead with their arms and hands above their head.

Up in Arms
2: Bend it for bondage - by using a spreader bar on the ankles while in a standing position. Then, lean forward and cuff the wrists to the spreader bar. In this position, your partner is ready and vulnerable for whatever pleasure comes their way.

Bend it For Bondage

3: Sealed with an X-OH - add a pair of restraints to the ankles in conjunction with restraints to the wrists. Both restraints can then be looped through a bedpost or attached to a firm object so that the body appears in an X shape.

Sealed with an X-OH

4: Valedictorian - Have your partner bind your wrists, either to the bed frame or above your head, while you lie in the missionary position. Then, spread your legs in a V-shape and lift them toward your head. Have your partner help with this, pushing your ankles back (as far as feels good for you) and holding them in place while they thrust.

Valedictorian

5: A little tied up right now - calls for the wrists and ankles to be restrained at the same place. But instead of standing and putting one’s body forward, this one is all about lying flat on the stomach.

A little tied up

6: The kinky missionary - the person on the receiving end lies on their back, with their hands over their head and cuffed to the bed head.

Kinky Missionary

7: Queening in bondage - for this position, the submissive partner is on the bottom. ‘Queening’ is also known as ‘sitting on their face.

Queening

8: Hands behind ankles - lie down with your belly on the floor or bed. Bend your legs up and reach back for your feet. Attach the handcuffs around your wrists so that they sit behind the ankles.

Hans behind Ankle

9: Standing Room Only - find a spot, like a towel rod or a hook against the wall, where you can handcuff your partner’s arms while standing up.

Standing Room

10: Pinball Wizard - lie down with your back flush to the mattress and then lift your hips into the air, as if you were doing a bridge in yoga. Then, have your partner bind your wrists behind your back and grab your butt, so you can wrap your legs around their waist as they thrust. (This one is like the leapfrog but in reverse.)

Pinball Wizard

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