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Sex Toys for Couples: Take Adult Play and Kinky Sex To A New Level

In BDSM, there’s a guiding principle known as RACK, which is an acronym for risk-aware consensual kink. The main concept is that all the participants involved in a certain sex act (scene) are aware of the potential risks involved and will do what they can to mitigate those risks.

Let this guide introduce you to and teach you a bit about kinky life.

While the word kink doesn’t have a medical or technical definition, it’s generally any sexual practice that falls out of the convention. “Kink” itself refers to anything that bends away from the “straight and narrow,” though there are a few categories that commonly fall under the kinky sex umbrella.

When most people think of kinky sex, they think of BDSM, a four-letter acronym for six different things: Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. BDSM includes an extremely wide range of activities, from light paddle spanking and dominant/submissive role-playing to bondage parties and pain play.

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You could do this in a number of ways:

Fantasy and role-playing, that is, creating imagined scenarios. This could be as simple as talking about a fantasy in bed, or as complex as wearing costumes or acting out scenes in front of strangers.
Fetishes are explored by treating a nonsexual object or body part sexually. Common fetishes include the feet and shoes, leather or rubber, and diaper play.
Voyeurism or exhibitionism. Watching someone undress or watching a couple have sex without their knowledge are common voyeur fantasies while having sex in a public place is one form of exhibitionism. More people are into this, more than would admit. You and your partner just might as well.
Group sex. Threesomes, sex parties, orgies, and more — group sex is any act that involves more than two people.

Now that you’re familiar with kink, you need to know that everything begins with consent. Seeking consent is something that should happen before any sex act, especially if you’re trying out something kinky for the first time.

Communication is important to healthy sexual relationships but vital when exploring dominant/submissive roles or potentially causing pain.

Safewords are a necessity. Part of your fantasy might involve restraints or resistance — which is more common than you might think among women. To make sure you can say no in your fantasy world, but still have a way to clearly say no to your partner, use a safe word you agree upon before you get kinky. The default phrases you can use are red light (stop) and green light (keep going). Think about your limits and be open and strict about them.

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Everyone has different limits and boundaries. While being open to new bedroom activities is great, being open about what you don’t want to explore (as in never, ever) is equally important. Discuss these “hard limits” with your partner openly — there’s no reason to be coy.

Make sure pain is pleasurable — and without health consequences. A big part of kinky sex is mixing pain and pleasure. While many couples draw the line at light spanking or slapping, those who explore other avenues — such as breast and genital pain — should educate themselves so that they don’t do serious or long-term damage to tissue or nerves.

Kink can look very different to different couples, and that is also fine. It is what you want it to be. Exploring kink doesn’t have to begin with buying a leather bodysuit and a whip or dressing up like Batman and Wonderwoman. It can be as simple as seeing what happens when you break from your regular bedroom routine and enter a new world of sex. Go on, go explore!

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