A Couple’s Guide to Introducing a Vibrator into The Relationship!

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A Couple’s Guide to Introducing a Vibrator into The Relationship!

Yep – you heard it here folks – sex toys aren’t just for masturbation!
(Although that’s still not stopping me, it can be just as pleasurable when you make it a team effort!)

There are probably a variety of reasons as to why you might want to use sex toys with your partner, and it will be different for everyone. Whether you want to level the orgasm playing field, or ignite a spark that might be dulling out - there’s probably a toy on the market that can help!

However, if you’re a bit unsure or nervous about how to approach the subject or how to use a vibrator with your partner when it comes to getting down and dirty, then you're a bit blocked from trying it out together and taking advantage of the benefits.

So, grab your partner and buckle in, because here’s the lowdown on how you can both be having your best sex! Because yes, even if it is GREAT, it can still be ORGASMIC every time!

Why Should Couples Use Vibrators?

They shake up any repetitiveness and inspire you to experiment

Using toys together is an incredible way to gauge your partners enjoyment to certain stimulation! If things are feeling a bit “same old, same old”, it’s not a sign your intimacy is lacking, but it is a sign that you could benefit from bringing a vibrator into the bedroom dynamic. Trying something new is never a bad thing, and couple’s vibrators are a great way to encourage experimentation in the bedroom.

You get to talk about getting freaky

Caring communication and mutual fulfillment are essential in maintaining a healthy relationship, and what better way to practice this than by talking about your most intimate moments together. Sure, it might feel a little odd, or embarrassing at the beginning, however that doesn’t mean it needs to always be! Use this as a time for you and your partner, to communicate completely transparently and safely, and share your wants, needs, and desires.

Aids in that elusive orgasm

Oh, the elusive orgasm!
You always hear that most women can't orgasm from intercourse alone, but "alone" is the key-word in this situation – because this is something that can affect both man and women. For when that orgasm is just out of reach, or you just need something “more”, there shouldn’t be embarrassment surrounding a person taking control of this. Using toys, even with a partner, is a liberating experience – and is one of the more time-efficient ways of both parties getting to that big “O”. After all, teamwork makes the dream work.

How To Use a Vibrator as a Couple?

Start Slowly

There’s no race line or expectation when you use a vibrator, because its important to do what feels good!

Our HOT tips on introducing a vibrator into the couple dynamic is:

Use it by yourself the first few times! Find what gets your toes curling, and run with it.
Introducing a vibrator during foreplay or when finishing!
Take advantage of the nature of discreet wireless remote-control and app-controlled couples sex toys
Bring in one of your own toys, that you might usually use alone!

Use Lubricant, Lotions, and Potions!

The holy grail of all things sex!
Enhancing your pleasure, keeping things slippery, and reducing friction – lubricants are an essential when using a couple’s vibrator (especially if they require a bit of manoeuvring in the beginning) and are a great way to keep things feeling “natural”. There is an abundance of lubricants available that promote a variety of sensations – enough so that these could even be your newest sex toy to experiment with!

Communication

I probably sound like a broken record at this stage, but it’s important to keep communication clear and consistent about using a toy together! Yes of course talk beforehand, but also during, and after! Tell your partner what you do like, what you don’t like so much, and what you thought of using the couples sex toy! This makes it a great jumping off point to expand even further!
Perhaps there’s even something you would like to try next time?

Choosing The Right Vibrator for a Couple?

Talk it out

Whipping a toy out in the middle of a session to an un-expecting sexual partner, is probably not the best way to go about introducing a toy. First things first, talk it out! It’s important to be on the same age with one another, not only does it maximise your pleasure but it ensures everyone has a good time! So, gauge their response when you raise your interest and ensure it’s something that you’re both comfortable with – if they aren’t that’s more than okay!

Go Shopping

Yes, this is where we come in, finally!
Okay so you’ve spoken about it, and they’re down to give it a go—the next step is establishing how you’ll go about finding a toy. You can either go alone and choose a toy yourself, or invite your partner along.

Shopping in-store:
This is where you can ask all the questions, you’re unsure on! The sales member should be able to run you through how to use the toy, how to maintain it, and how it works! Not only that but when you do go shopping in-store you get to feel, hold, and imagine how a toy will feel before you even buy it! You can even make a date out of it with your partner!

Shopping online:
Shopping from the own comfort of your home! In a currently COVID19 world, we understand that its not always an option to pop down to your local! However, thank you to the internet, its not longer your only option! If you browse online your possibilities are endless, with countless lines and brands, you and your partner could spend hours browsing. However, always use caution with specifications and ensure that you know what you’re getting – there’s nothing more disappointing than a toy you can’t use! We at Be Daring the Adult Shop, offer the best of both worlds and you can contact our sales team directly on 1800 666 069 for information about any products we have in our online collections!

Choose The Right Gear for You

I always follow the saying; you never know until you give it a go!

There is a plethora of couple’s sex toys out there, however, if you’re only just stepping into the world of adult sex toys for couples then you might not know what the “right gear for you” even is, so rest assured we do have a few recommendations:

Penis Rings
Remote-controlled Vibrators
Anal Sex Toys
Clitoral Vibrators
Lubricants, Lotions, and Potions
Bondage Restraints (handcuffs, ankle cuffs, door sex swings, under the bed cuffs)
Introduce one of your own toys, if you have some!

Final Thoughts

So, there we have it! Using a couple’s sex toy, you can aid in improving your own sexual exploration, your intimacy with your partner, and in achieving orgasm. As you can probably tell, it’s becoming a lot less “taboo” (we’re not even sure why pleasure is taboo in the first place) to introduce a vibrator into your relationship – so embrace it today! For more pleasure education on making things even hotter for you and your partner, make sure to check out our other blogs: 10 Lesser Known Erogenous Zones - What they Are & How to Stimulate Them!

If you are looking for some couple’s sex toys to help you get a bit more sexually creative with your companion, then please feel free to drop in to one of our stores or call us today on 1800 666 069. We are always here to help!

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