Spicing Up Your Sex Life With Couples Toys

Spicing Up Your Sex Life With Couples Toys

No matter how daring you and your partner(s) are, the latest sex toys for couples will spice up your paired sex life. But we don't need to tell you: You've arrived here because you've thankfully progressed past the old, erroneous belief that even the best sex toys for couples somehow brand you (or your sex life) as inadequate. This is excellent. Even if you are between-the-sheets time needs a boost, there is no shame in using these goods. (If you're a first-timer searching for advice, we have a handy guide for starting into sex toys. We also have some solo sex toys if that's what you're looking for.)

Is It Beneficial?

First and foremost, since they're enjoyable and satisfying! Sex toys, as the name suggests, encourage play and experimentation. Sure, you can accomplish a lot with just your two bodies, but when you add toys into the mix, your options multiply enormously. Sex toys can stimulate key erogenous zones in new and different ways. "The mere presence of a sex toy often leads to new conversations about everything from desires and fantasies to boundaries and hesitations." And, as we all know, honesty and vulnerability enhance all relationships. This is why sex games, such as sex card games, are also incredibly effective at deepening emotional and physical intimacy. 

Another reason to introduce toys is what’s known as the “orgasm gap”: Women statistically have fewer orgasms than men during sex, mainly due to the lack of consistent clitoral stimulation that intercourse offers, and using a sex toy is a great workaround for this. 

 

How to introduce sex toys in the bedroom?

Toys can be scary to discuss with a partner if you've never used them together before, so start simple. We would suggest starting by discussing the use of a simple vibrator or bringing it out during sex and asking whether it is okay to use. If you enjoy masturbating with toys, try using any toys you already use on your own and finding ways to include them when having sex. Some people become uneasy or anxious about toys if their spouse needs or wants to use toys during sex, they must be somehow inadequate. However, an orgasm that your significant other gives you with a toy is still an orgasm they gave you, even if the extra tech was used. Remind your partner that the toy is meant to improve your experience, not to compete with them.

 

What types of sex toys are suitable for couples?

 Any toy can be a couple’s toy, but search for wearables (such as penis rings and dual-ended vibrators) that are intended to stay in place during sex. These options, such as the Dame Eva, Lelo Tor 2, and We-Vibe Sync 2, are excellent investments since they allow both lovers to enjoy the sensations without being distracted. Consider the following toys in addition to wearables:

 

Wand vibrators enable for an exquisite, full-body massage before intercourse, followed by targeted vibration.

Suction devices simulate the sensation of having oral sex while being penetrated or masturbating with a partner.

Panty vibrators, which have remote controllers and are easy to slip under underwear, aid in the exploration of public play.

Strap-on dildos allow people with vaginas to penetrate their partners, reversing the roles in the bedroom.

Long-distance sex gadgets can be used from another room...or even another country.

Toys we love-

 

 

 

 

Lelo Hugo

Try this dual-ended vibrator to amp up your anal play. It's created primarily as a prostate massager, which means it'll target the male equivalent of the G-spot. It's also waterproof, remote-controlled, and rechargeable, with six vibration patterns and a battery life of up to two hours.

Specs: 6 vibration settings, 2-hour battery, rechargeable

 

Lelo Hugo

Hot Octopuss Pulse 

 

It's a one-of-a-kind sleeve that stimulates the penis's underside. Even better, this sleeve adds powerful external vibrations for a partner to grind on—it's an entirely new way to have sex.

 

Specs: 5 vibration settings, 1-hour battery, rechargeable

 

 

Hot Octopuss Pulse

Satisfyer Pro 2

 

This beloved suction toy sends waves of pleasure through your clit, mimicking the sensation of oral sex with knee-weakening accuracy. If you have trouble orgasming from internal stimulation alone, it’s guaranteed to take your next bedroom romp to an 11.

 

Specs: 11 intensity levels, 1.5-hour battery, rechargeable.

 

Satisfyer Pro 2

Dame Eva

This hands-free vibrator fits in the vulva and rests between the labia when used alone or with a companion. It stimulates the clitoris and allows for penetration simultaneously, and even has a discreet charging case.

Specs: 3 intensity levels, 1-hour battery, rechargeable

 

Dame Eva

Lelo Tor 2

Because the little vibrator is precisely placed to rub against the entire clitoral area while a couple is having penetrative sex, a vibrating cock ring is an excellent choice for partnered sex. Penis rings are also helpful to support a man’s erection because they maintain the blood flow in the genital area.

 

Specs: 6 vibration settings, 1.5-hour battery, rechargeable

Lelo Tor 2

We-Vibe Sync 2

recommends the We-Vibe Sync to almost any couple. It has a head that rubs the clitoris and a smaller end that vibrates the G-spot and a partner's penis during sex. It's also waterproof, making it great for sex in the shower. There's also a remote control for easy adjustments, as well as app control, which lets users to manage the vibrator's rhythm from anywhere in the world, making it ideal for long-distance lovers.

 

Specifications: 10 intensity settings, 2-hour rechargeable battery

We-Vibe Sync 2

 

 

 

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