Be Daring’s Best Picks: Expert Recommendations for First-Time Male Sex Toy Users

Be Daring’s Best Picks: Expert Recommendations for First-Time Male Sex Toy Users

There are sex toys for everyone, regardless of gender, body size, or kinks. However, with so many alternatives available, it might be difficult to know where to search, especially if you're a sex toy newbie who has never purchased one before. You could easily become overwhelmed while browsing all the toys available online, such as anal hooks, or giant butt plugs, so we're here to assist you figure out where to start. What is your first step? Understanding the various sorts of sex toys available. This helpful guide will explain the distinctions between vibrators, dildos, prostate massagers, cock rings, and other devices. Once you've determined which categories you're interested in, you may zero in on exactly what you want to buy.


What To Look For?

  • Type - Depending on the type of pleasure and play you seek; you'll want a different form of toy; we've listed the type of toy from rings to strokers to prostate toys to anal toys.


  • Material - You want to make certain that the toys you buy are composed of high-quality, body-safe materials. Body-safe materials, such as silicone, glass, metals such as stainless steel, and ABS plastic, are nonporous, making them less likely to harbour hazardous bacteria or viruses and hence more hygienic. Several of the strokers on this list are made of Thermoplastic Elastomer, a soft, porous plastic. As a result, they should not be shared among partners and should be discarded after the manufacturer's specified number of uses.


  • Vibrating versus non-vibrating - While some individuals enjoy vibration, others may find it too intense (particularly in more sensitive areas), so we've included a blend of both in each type of toy below.


1. Best open design stroker

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo EssentialWe recommend open strokers like this one to all guys, but especially those who have difficulty becoming aroused. You want bringing sex toys into the bedroom to be as easy as possible, and an open penis sleeve fits flaccid penises because it can be adjusted to be tighter or looser. It has a vibrating plate that expertly targets the frenulum, a hot spot of nerve endings near the head of the penis.


2. Best stroker for partner play

Fun Factory Manta

StrokerThe Manta is one of the most inventive stroker toys available, and it is quite popular among those in the know. The smooth, velvety silicone head is sculpted to bend over the penis and has ridges along the inside of the wings to keep lubricant in place for extra pleasure.


3. Best dual-stimulation vibrating prostate toy

We-Vibe Vector

We-Vibe's Vector is one of our favourite prostate toy since it has two motors: one in the prostate part and one underneath for the perineum. (For those unfamiliar with anatomy, the perineum is the area between the testicles and the buttocks.)  It has an accompanying app that we recommend using with the toy because it allows you to customize the motors and hand over the controls to up to ten people anywhere in the world, like the We-Vibe Pivot.


4. Best less expensive ring

Screaming O Vibrating Ring

We propose this Screaming O vibrating ring for a simpler, more cheap vibrating ring. Just wrap it around the base of your erect penis and turn it on. While it is only intended for single use, it is an effective, discrete, and travel-friendly choice for first timers.


5. Best app-compatible ring

We-Vibe Pivot

You can control the vibration on the real toy if you wish, but the Pivot's biggest feature, in her opinion, is the attached smartphone app. This allows your partners to operate it from anywhere in the world and create personalized vibration patterns.


6. Best Stroker

Fleshlight Quickshot

Fleshlight is well-known for its flashlight-style masturbation sleeves, but this Quickshot is just as effective — if not better — for novices and couples. The 4.4-inch-long small sleeve has a soft lining made of Fleshlight's unique Superskin material. Because it is shorter, the Quickshot is ideal for improving oral sex. It's also waterproof and simple to clean up afterwards.


7. Best Penis Pump

Pipedream Pump Worx Beginners Vibrating Pump

If erection issues are getting you down, penis pumps are just the toy for you. Suction action from these toys works to draw blood into the penis and engorge it, with regular use helping to strengthen and enlarge your erections in the long term. Penis pumps can be used prior to sex to extend the length and girth of your shaft. The ability to control vibration bullet adds extra stimulation.

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