Hitting The Right Spot

Solving the G-Spot Mystery!

Although the g spot is steeped in mystery it is actually quite easy to find if you know how to look for it. The rewards of finding it, and exciting it, will be well worth your pursuit.

Basic Woman's Anatomy

The G-spot (specifically the Gräfenberg spot named after the German doctor who first found it and documented it), is found in the woman's genital area just behind the pubic bone and it surrounds the urethra. Sound confusing? Let us start at the opening of the vagina

The vagina has a top and bottom, and the bottom borders the rectum and anus, and the top borders the bladder. It's the top we are interested in here. Do not go too far inside the vagina, as you will come to the cervix, which is the mouth of the uterus.

You have passed the g-spot if you are already there. So assuming you are only about 4 inches into the vagina, feel with your finger probe the top surface.
You will feel some tissue that is somewhat rougher than the tissue around it. Therein lies the g-spot, or most of it. If you can imagine that the woman's clitoris is more of an internal and external organ, its nerve ending begin (or end) with the area you are feeling...the g-spot. Found it?

Insert two well lubricated fingers, fingernail side down, and in a "come here" motion, press the two fingers against the g-spot area. This is a very good technique also done during cunnilingus, and has a very positive effect on a woman's ability to orgasm and re-orgasm in quick succession.

G-Spot Stimulation

Popular myths of masculinity and female misconception about large penis' will have little to do with stimulation of the g-spot. If you have an average size penis, and can hold an erection, you can stimulate the g-spot and bring your lady partner to a profound orgasm.

How is this done?

You need the correct sexual position, and there is one great position which is ideal for g-spot stimulation.  Start with the man sitting on the edge of a bed, and woman mounted on top of him, with her legs wrapped around his back. The man's penis is inserted in the woman's vagina, and the woman adapts the depth exactly to stimulate the g-spot. No thrusting is necessary or required. Just maintain the erection, press as hard as you can from the pelvic area, so the penis puts pressure on the g-spot. The rest is all automatic from the female, and soon she will arrive at a deep and satisfying orgasm.  This position also stimulates the woman's clitoris, and this double stimulation brings about this great female orgasm.

Best Toys for G-Spot Stimulation

G-Spot Toy - A sex toy designed specifically for stimulation of a woman's G-Spot (some may also be used for male prostate stimulation). Generally a smooth, slender vibrator or dildo with a curved tip and rounded head; may be made of any number of materials, but the best a body safe silicone. Designed for use with the curve pointing toward the front (belly button) of the woman's body, most are the traditional hand-held cylindrical shape, but may also be in the form of a strap-on vibrator.

Orally Speaking - Quick Guide for Better Oral Sex

Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex. The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out," and I'm not talking about fine dining.

Tongue to lips

Any licking, gentle sucking or all-around moisture from the mouth to the vaginal entrance, the labia (lips) or the clitoris will surely make you popular with your flavour of the evening.

When you begin to give oral sex, it's important to start slowly. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an over-achiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue.

Pretend that her entire vagina is an ice-cream cone with three scoops of your favourite flavour; if you don't like ice-cream, I'm sure you can appreciate the metaphor. Use your tongue to lick her vagina from its entrance up to the clitoris. Remember to chill out and relax; enjoy yourself and don't get tense.

Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer labia on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. And since the other side will probably get jealous, move on to the other side afterward.

Oral exploration

Were you aware that the tongue is the body's strongest muscle? Well imagine what you could do with your tongue if you were giving her oral sex. Since you have more control with your tongue than with your penis, the sensations will drive her crazy.

Not only is your tongue naturally lubricated with saliva, you can maneuver it in ways that a penis never could. So why not use your tongue to have sex with her? Thrust your tongue in and out of her vagina, and take a break from time to time to explore her insides.

While you're roaming around down there, vary your cadence and the firmness of your tongue. Use your firm, flexed tongue for pinpoint accuracy, such as when you circle the clitoris, and use a limber, flat tongue to cover more ground.

Remember to continuously return to her clitoris since most women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation -- especially when it comes to oral sex. However, don't apply too much pressure to her clitoris right away because it may irritate her and turn her off. Start out gently and increase pressure and speed according to her body language.

Warranty and Repairs:

Be Daring the Adult Shop supply care instructions with all purchases of vibrating products and also offer a 30 day repair warranty on all vibrating products sold.  This entitles the customer to return to store any item which is shown to be faulty within 30 days of purchase for repair or replacement.


The information provided to you is not professional advice. No-one should act in reliance upon any of this information without first obtaining independent advice from a health professional familiar with their particular state of health and fitness.

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