Packers come in different forms, each tailored to a specific purpose. Understanding these types will help you choose the one that feels right for your lifestyle and body.

Soft Packers

These are the most common, everyday packers. Soft and flexible, they rest comfortably in your underwear, creating a natural bulge without the weight or stiffness of a dildo. They come in various lengths and girths, making it easy to find one that complements your frame. Because they are designed solely for appearance and comfort, they are perfect for daily wear at work, social outings, or even lounging at home.

STP Packers

STP stands for “Stand To Pee.” These designs feature a hollow shaft or funnel system that allows you to urinate while standing. For many, this is more than convenience—it’s freedom. The ability to use public restrooms without having to sit can be life-changing. While STPs take practice, especially learning angles and flow control, once mastered they can become indispensable in daily life.

3-in-1 Packers

As the name suggests, these multifunctional packers allow you to pack, pee, and play. Typically made from premium silicone, they combine the aesthetic of a soft packer with the functionality of an STP and the durability of a dildo. This means you can wear it all day, use it in the bathroom, and then transition seamlessly to intimacy without switching products.

Pack-and-Play Packers

Designed to sit between soft packers and full-on dildos, pack-and-play models provide a comfortable bulge during the day but are firm enough to use for penetrative play with a harness. They give you versatility without the need to own multiple products, making them a smart investment if you want something practical and intimate.

Foam or Fabric Packers

These are lightweight, often built into packing underwear, and offer a subtle bulge. They are beginner-friendly, affordable, and very low maintenance. While they don’t have the realistic look or feel of silicone or elastomer, they provide an accessible entry point for those curious about packing.

Packing is not a requirement—it’s an option. But for many, the choice to pack is about much more than appearance.

• Gender Affirmation: A packer can reduce dysphoria, helping you feel more at home in your body. For some, the simple act of dressing with a packer is enough to make them feel whole and aligned.
  
  
• Confidence: When your body matches how you see yourself, you naturally stand taller. That quiet confidence can transform how you move through the world, whether you’re at work, on a date, or hitting the gym.
  
  
• Discretion: Modern packers are soft, realistic, and designed to sit subtly under clothing. With the right size and placement, your bulge will look natural without drawing unwanted attention.
  
  
• Play & Function: Certain packers are more than just visual. With STP features, you gain new levels of autonomy in restrooms. With pack-and-play or 3-in-1 designs, you can move from everyday life into intimacy without breaking flow.

When selecting a packer, think about your comfort, lifestyle, and personal goals.

Size & Fit

Size is highly personal. A smaller packer (around 3–4 inches flaccid) looks natural on most body types and is often less intimidating for beginners. Larger packers can feel affirming for taller or broader individuals but may be harder to keep in place during movement. Testing size at home—by sitting, standing, and bending—will help you see how the bulge looks and feels in your clothes.

Materials

Silicone: Long-lasting, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. Silicone feels firm but reassuringly durable, making it an excellent choice for multifunctional packers.

Elastomer or Cyberskin: Popular for their squishy, lifelike texture. They feel incredibly real, but they’re porous and require careful cleaning and powdering to avoid stickiness.

Fabric/Foam: Lightweight and casual. These are perfect for experimenting without a large upfront investment.

Underwear & Harness Options

The right underwear makes all the difference. Packing underwear has built-in pouches to cradle your packer and hold it in place. Snug briefs or boxer briefs also work well, while harnesses add security for active days or sexual play. Many people experiment with a DIY sock pouch before upgrading to specialised gear.

Features

Think about your end goals. Do you want purely aesthetic packing, or are you interested in STP or intimate play? Multipurpose packers can cost more but deliver incredible versatility.

Ready to explore? Shop soft packers, STP packers, and 3-in-1 packers in multiple sizes, tones, and materials. Pair your packer with packing underwear for secure and comfortable wear. At Be Daring, we curate gender-affirming options with discreet shipping across Australia so you can shop with confidence.

Safety and comfort go hand in hand when it comes to packing.

• Choose secure underwear: Start with snug briefs or boxer briefs. For added support, invest in packing underwear with a built-in pouch.
  
  
• Practice with STPs: Learning to use an STP packer takes time. Practise in the shower first to master flow, angle, and speed.
  
  
• Keep it clean: Wash your packer after every wear. Silicone can be boiled for sanitisation, while elastomer must be air dried and powdered. Foam and fabric packers are usually machine washable. Make sure to refer to the product guide for specific instructions.
  
  
• Mind adhesives: If you’re using adhesive systems for direct skin contact, always patch-test first. Remove gently with medical adhesive remover to prevent irritation.
  
  
• Check your comfort: If you feel chafing, itching, or discomfort, adjust placement or take a break. Packing should affirm, not harm.

What makes packers unique?

Packers are specifically designed for gender affirmation. Unlike standard dildos, they provide a natural bulge and soft feel that supports daily wear.

How do I clean and care for my packer?

Silicone can be washed with soap and water or boiled for sanitisation. Elastomer and cyberskin should be cleaned with mild soap, air dried, and dusted with cornstarch. Foam and fabric packers are low maintenance and can often be machine washed.

Are packers rechargeable?

Most soft or STP packers are not. However, some multifunctional 3-in-1 or vibrating packers include rechargeable features for added pleasure.

Which packer is best for beginners?

A small, soft elastomer packer is often the easiest starting point. Combine it with packing underwear for security and comfort.

Do packers come with a warranty?

Many silicone and premium multifunctional packers do, while softer elastomer versions usually don’t. Always check manufacturer guidelines before purchase.